OMG! It’s another VALENTINE’S DAY and everyone around is going to profess love that they so have daily or hadn’t at all through the year. Dinner-lunch-breakfast dates will happen… Candle light is going to be preferred over well-lit dinner. So that you nor your date has a clue what you are being served but your eyes will open wide once you are handed the bill. Then you will try and figure whether you should split the bill or is it a sign to split the relationship!
I have never been in favour of having days like this. I think the only day people should celebrate is Birthdays of self and loved one’s and remember death anniversaries to remember the one's who left.
Don’t get me wrong. I am not against Love. I love, love and I love myself first and then everyone else connected to me. For some reason self-love is not practised by many hence I believe the hesitations, the expectations leading to dissatisfaction and disappointments.
I don’t think loving a person should hold more importance than the love you receive from your parents and children and vice versa. Those are the only love which is unconditional. Rest all is *conditions apply.
Well, during this or any Valentine’s Day to come, when you see everyone is wearing red and going out on dates and dinner and you have no one, look at yourself in the mirror and be happy that you have one full year to find someone and for someone to find you. Love will happen. But you need to let it happen not force it!
And if you are feeling bad then tune into this playlist. It only has songs that is ANTI-LOVE 😊
Music is therapy. Believe in it and have fun!
Love thyself before you claim to love someone else. Take care.